Dependent Origination (පටිච්චසමුප්පාදය)
Dependent Origination (Paṭicca Samuppāda) is not a theory about the past or future—it is a living process happening right now. This post explores how suffering arises and how it can cease.
From “I Like It” to “I Must Have It My Way” – The Hidden Suffering Behind Desire
Is liking something the same as wanting it exactly the way we wish? This post explores the subtle but powerful difference between simple preference and the craving for control—and how that difference leads to Arya Dukkha
Dukka (the Rain) – Concepts on understanding Buddhas description on Arya Dukka (Noble Suffering)
Dukka (the Rain) Concepts on understanding Dukka Time Stamps for Dhamms sermon in Sinhala 23:28 බාන.29:14 කලින් හැදුනේ..31:13 පැටලුම44:00 Nose47:03 ස්පර්ශ වෙනකොට එකමදේ සැපත් දුකත් වේ.50:44 සීත රස්නය52:36 අරමුණු වෙනස් කිරීමේ ක්රමය57:00 වෙලාව1:01:00 මෙහම නොවුනා නම්.....Concept 6 – Not everything is Rain (Arya Dukka)
Not everything we experience is Arya Dukkha. Most of daily life consists of simple water drops; pleasant or unpleasant moments that arise and pass away on their own. Liking or disliking something, feeling happy or sad, eating, traveling, getting sick, or being late are not, by themselves, the rain. Arya Dukkha begins only when the mind insists, _“I can get this the way I wish it should be.”_ At that moment, reality is no longer allowed to be as it is, and ordinary experience is burdened with expectation. Understanding this distinction prevents us from mistaking life itself for suffering and points directly to where suffering truly begins.
Concept 5 – Wrong Effort, Wrong Results: The Cow, the Milk, and Human Suffering
We often confuse effort with correctness and expectation with causation. When outcomes fail to appear, frustration follows quickly, as if reality betrayed us. But the problem is rarely effort or belief. It is alignment.
Pulling a cow’s horns will never produce milk, no matter how hopeful, angry, or detached you feel. Expectation does not create results, and disappointment does not negate reality. Milk comes from udders because that is how the system works.
Suffering begins when we argue with cause and effect. We get angry at outcomes, proud of instabilities, and confused when reality refuses to cooperate with our inner narratives. Understanding where results actually come from dissolves blame, pride, and frustration. Wisdom is not about forcing detachment but about seeing clearly. When action aligns with reality, results follow quietly, without drama.
Concept 4: Understand Arya Dukkha and Eliminate It
Arya Dukkha does not arise from events themselves, but from the belief that things should or should not have happened in a particular way. The unavoidable experiences of life are like two falling water drops—brief, limited, and manageable. Suffering begins when those drops turn into rain through expectation, resistance, and craving. Honking traffic, abundant food, a lost possession, or even a dog chewing a meatless bone are not the true causes of distress. The real suffering comes from believing that relief, happiness, or satisfaction must arise from these conditions. Understanding this distinction is not mere intellectual clarity; it is a practical step toward ending suffering at its root.